If you claim to love black women fuckin act like it (Advice for white allies during the holidays)

If you claim to love Black women and you let people hesitate around us, especially during the holidays, you are full of shit.

Christmas is when everyone wants to pretend they’re generous, loving, and decent. It’s also when the bullshit gets loud. Family dinners. Office parties. Group chats. That’s when people suddenly forget how to speak the moment a Bla…