A Message to My Trans Feminist Sisters: Stop Writing About the TMEs

Every time a TME says something foul, half of you stop what you were doing and build your whole day around it. A post goes up. A joke lands. A thread drips contempt. A columnist writes some smug little piece about us. Then the same cycle starts again. You quote it, drag it, unpack it, and spread it further. By the end of the day, he has said the first w…